Monday 2 November 2009
Sunday 1 November 2009
How to win your lover back
Hi. Welcome to my blog. This time I'll share with you some crucial information on how to win your lover back.
We all been there, lost the person we love. some of us take it in our stride, whilst others fall to pieces.
But if you're 100% completely confident you want that person back.Read on !!
But before you take on this task of getting your lover back, Trust and learn about who you are. learn to love yourself without condition. except yourself for who you are. you're unique and there's no other like you.repeat this to yourself daily and you'll get to know the real you.
Maybe then you'll realise you don't want them back? But if you feel you still do, then read on.
Relationships are never easy. When one person decides they are ready for a split, it can be earth shattering for the other. In many instances when a man makes the decision to leave the woman in his life, she's not accepting of that decision. She may see him as her Prince Charming and she's not ready to give up on the dream of happily ever after with him. The first impulse many women have is to try and remind their lover how good things once were. This rarely works and in fact if you are wondering how to get your lover back, you should stop and think before you contact them at all.
The things you say immediately after a break-up are really crucial. If you respond to your lover's request to end things, by crying and acting as though your world has come to an end, you create a resentment that may be impossible for him to get past. When you are wondering how to get your lover back consider his feelings. If he feels attacked, he's not going to want to speak with you again. Chances are that even if he initiated the split, he still harbors some strong feelings for you.
Keep your feelings to yourself after the break up. If your lover asks if you still love him, don't answer in a direct way. Instead tell him that you'll always care for him, but never use the word 'love.' This may go against everything you are feeling inside, but you want to create some doubt in the mind of your boyfriend or husband, and being slightly elusive does just that. Also, don't blurt out that you love him when you are speaking with him. Remain friendly, but don't look for reasons to share your feelings.
Get out and enjoy your life after the break up. This can be incredibly hard to do, but it's essential if you really do want to get your lover back. If you go out and have fun, live your life and hang out with friends, your ex lover will wonder how you were able to get over him so swiftly. Always put on a brave face and a smile.
(TIP OF THE DAY) Sign up with a dating website and flirt with people online, re- invent yourself and be the person you want to be. Have fun and it's totally safe hiding behind your monitor. Don't meet up with them or exchange emails, phone numbers. KEEP THE FUN ONLINE ONLY.
When a relationship ends it often leaves a void. You are probably feeling that since your boyfriend or husband left and even though you may not think it, he is likely feeling that as well. When you are thinking about how to get your lover back, consider that void. Once you are gone, he'll start to wonder why he feels so empty. Before long he'll realise that he truly misses you.
You can get your lover back. However make the wrong move, them may as well call it a day.Hold your head up high, and remember your dignity. Once you start to live your own life without your lover, you'll soon discover that he's having trouble living his without you. By then you'll feel stronger and you'll be the one making the decision about whether or not you want to take him back. Stop thinking about how to win your lover back. Instead focus on yourself, and before long he'll be calling, emailing and sending flowers.
There are other conscious steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever. Find out what you should and shouldn't be doing. telling Him that you'll ready to move on and that you have someone interested in you will infuriate Him. Men have very strong ego's. Once damaged the work involve to repair is simply not worth it.Again i must stress that men have huge ego's if he thinks you been sleeping and loving someone else. you're better off somewhere else.
Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.
follow this blog for more updates coming soon.Your comments is much appreciated.
Kersley.
We all been there, lost the person we love. some of us take it in our stride, whilst others fall to pieces.
But if you're 100% completely confident you want that person back.Read on !!
But before you take on this task of getting your lover back, Trust and learn about who you are. learn to love yourself without condition. except yourself for who you are. you're unique and there's no other like you.repeat this to yourself daily and you'll get to know the real you.
Maybe then you'll realise you don't want them back? But if you feel you still do, then read on.
Relationships are never easy. When one person decides they are ready for a split, it can be earth shattering for the other. In many instances when a man makes the decision to leave the woman in his life, she's not accepting of that decision. She may see him as her Prince Charming and she's not ready to give up on the dream of happily ever after with him. The first impulse many women have is to try and remind their lover how good things once were. This rarely works and in fact if you are wondering how to get your lover back, you should stop and think before you contact them at all.
The things you say immediately after a break-up are really crucial. If you respond to your lover's request to end things, by crying and acting as though your world has come to an end, you create a resentment that may be impossible for him to get past. When you are wondering how to get your lover back consider his feelings. If he feels attacked, he's not going to want to speak with you again. Chances are that even if he initiated the split, he still harbors some strong feelings for you.
Keep your feelings to yourself after the break up. If your lover asks if you still love him, don't answer in a direct way. Instead tell him that you'll always care for him, but never use the word 'love.' This may go against everything you are feeling inside, but you want to create some doubt in the mind of your boyfriend or husband, and being slightly elusive does just that. Also, don't blurt out that you love him when you are speaking with him. Remain friendly, but don't look for reasons to share your feelings.
Get out and enjoy your life after the break up. This can be incredibly hard to do, but it's essential if you really do want to get your lover back. If you go out and have fun, live your life and hang out with friends, your ex lover will wonder how you were able to get over him so swiftly. Always put on a brave face and a smile.
(TIP OF THE DAY) Sign up with a dating website and flirt with people online, re- invent yourself and be the person you want to be. Have fun and it's totally safe hiding behind your monitor. Don't meet up with them or exchange emails, phone numbers. KEEP THE FUN ONLINE ONLY.
When a relationship ends it often leaves a void. You are probably feeling that since your boyfriend or husband left and even though you may not think it, he is likely feeling that as well. When you are thinking about how to get your lover back, consider that void. Once you are gone, he'll start to wonder why he feels so empty. Before long he'll realise that he truly misses you.
You can get your lover back. However make the wrong move, them may as well call it a day.Hold your head up high, and remember your dignity. Once you start to live your own life without your lover, you'll soon discover that he's having trouble living his without you. By then you'll feel stronger and you'll be the one making the decision about whether or not you want to take him back. Stop thinking about how to win your lover back. Instead focus on yourself, and before long he'll be calling, emailing and sending flowers.
There are other conscious steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever. Find out what you should and shouldn't be doing. telling Him that you'll ready to move on and that you have someone interested in you will infuriate Him. Men have very strong ego's. Once damaged the work involve to repair is simply not worth it.Again i must stress that men have huge ego's if he thinks you been sleeping and loving someone else. you're better off somewhere else.
Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.
follow this blog for more updates coming soon.Your comments is much appreciated.
Kersley.
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