Hi. Welcome to my blog. This time I'll share with you some crucial information on how to win your lover back.
We all been there, lost the person we love. some of us take it in our stride, whilst others fall to pieces.
But if you're 100% completely confident you want that person back.Read on !!
But before you take on this task of getting your lover back, Trust and learn about who you are. learn to love yourself without condition. except yourself for who you are. you're unique and there's no other like you.repeat this to yourself daily and you'll get to know the real you.
Maybe then you'll realise you don't want them back? But if you feel you still do, then read on.
Relationships are never easy. When one person decides they are ready for a split, it can be earth shattering for the other. In many instances when a man makes the decision to leave the woman in his life, she's not accepting of that decision. She may see him as her Prince Charming and she's not ready to give up on the dream of happily ever after with him. The first impulse many women have is to try and remind their lover how good things once were. This rarely works and in fact if you are wondering how to get your lover back, you should stop and think before you contact them at all.
The things you say immediately after a break-up are really crucial. If you respond to your lover's request to end things, by crying and acting as though your world has come to an end, you create a resentment that may be impossible for him to get past. When you are wondering how to get your lover back consider his feelings. If he feels attacked, he's not going to want to speak with you again. Chances are that even if he initiated the split, he still harbors some strong feelings for you.
Keep your feelings to yourself after the break up. If your lover asks if you still love him, don't answer in a direct way. Instead tell him that you'll always care for him, but never use the word 'love.' This may go against everything you are feeling inside, but you want to create some doubt in the mind of your boyfriend or husband, and being slightly elusive does just that. Also, don't blurt out that you love him when you are speaking with him. Remain friendly, but don't look for reasons to share your feelings.
Get out and enjoy your life after the break up. This can be incredibly hard to do, but it's essential if you really do want to get your lover back. If you go out and have fun, live your life and hang out with friends, your ex lover will wonder how you were able to get over him so swiftly. Always put on a brave face and a smile.
(TIP OF THE DAY) Sign up with a dating website and flirt with people online, re- invent yourself and be the person you want to be. Have fun and it's totally safe hiding behind your monitor. Don't meet up with them or exchange emails, phone numbers. KEEP THE FUN ONLINE ONLY.
When a relationship ends it often leaves a void. You are probably feeling that since your boyfriend or husband left and even though you may not think it, he is likely feeling that as well. When you are thinking about how to get your lover back, consider that void. Once you are gone, he'll start to wonder why he feels so empty. Before long he'll realise that he truly misses you.
You can get your lover back. However make the wrong move, them may as well call it a day.Hold your head up high, and remember your dignity. Once you start to live your own life without your lover, you'll soon discover that he's having trouble living his without you. By then you'll feel stronger and you'll be the one making the decision about whether or not you want to take him back. Stop thinking about how to win your lover back. Instead focus on yourself, and before long he'll be calling, emailing and sending flowers.
There are other conscious steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Doing the wrong thing can mean the end of the relationship forever. Find out what you should and shouldn't be doing. telling Him that you'll ready to move on and that you have someone interested in you will infuriate Him. Men have very strong ego's. Once damaged the work involve to repair is simply not worth it.Again i must stress that men have huge ego's if he thinks you been sleeping and loving someone else. you're better off somewhere else.
Don't give up on him if you believe he's the man you are meant to be with. There are specific methods you can use that will make you irresistible to him again.
follow this blog for more updates coming soon.Your comments is much appreciated.
Kersley.
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Interesting blog. I can't help but to pick uo on a few things that you have said. Firstly you are obviously writing this from a mans point of view. Now listen to a woman's point of view.
ReplyDeleteIf a man decides to end a relationship, a woman can only ask why, if it is not somthing obvious. You see if he has cheated on her and decides that he wants to be with the other woman, how do you think it will make that woman feel. Even if he is not cheating on her, for whatever reason he ends that relationship, that woman is gonna start looking at herself, thinking what have I done, whats wrong with me and so on. It is so easy to say pick yourself up and move on but much harder to do, especially if you have put your all into that relationship and loved that man like you have never loved before. Don't get me wrong I am all for being the strong woman and moving on but it is not so easy. So the question is, why would you take that man back? The advice I would give under those circumstances is Ladies, if your man decides to end your relationship for whatever reason, yes do your mourning and your crying or whichever way you choose to deal with the loss, but do move on with dignity and do not look back because the chances are that if you go back to him, he will hurt you again. It is totally different if you have both discussed this and made a joint decision to have a break and see how you get on. If your relationship has run it's course and you know it is comming to an end, be the brave one and end it and stay friends with your ex it is better than being bitter enemies.
Alot of relationships end because couples forget how to communicate with each other and therefore get bored.
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ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment.As i said in my blog. Learn to trust, love yourself. then maybe you'll not want them back? And of course you're right. why become enemies when friendship is far more productive?
Ps. why are you focusing on men cheating? Infact why don't you write a blog and share your thoughts on why Men cheat?
Kersley, thanks for your reply. As a woman who has gone through a few experiences where relationships are concerned I am totally lost as to why men cheat. I am not focusing on that, I just used it as an example. Women cheat too but men do it far more, you have to agree with me on that. She, the woman might be as happy as larry with her man and feel that everything is just fine yet he might still feel the need to cheat. I can only ask you as a man why? I am sure I ask that question for thousands of women out there who have been through that experience. I can only assume it comes down to that all important word again. Comminucation. If you are not happy, talk to your partner, if there is a financial worry, talk to your partner. There is nothing in this world that you should not be able to discuss with your partner. If it is a trust issue, then you should not be with that person. I look forward to hearing your explanation as to why men cheat.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely. Maybe it would be better to start a new blog on that subject? Hmmm yes i think i will.I'll rather keep this blog as the title say's, How to win your lover back.
ReplyDeleteThanks again.
interesting title, i read it and instantly felt uncomfortable with the idea of trying yo 'win' a lover back. i believe that if you are truly meant to be with someone there should be no need for games and strategies. there is a reason why two people break up and that same reason will raise it's head again if they decide to get back together,it takes two people who are comitted to a relatioship to make it work, one person cannot do it alone, if you have to convince someone to choose you then are they really right for you? The only way to repair a broken realtionship(if both parties want this) is to come with an honest and open heart and communicate, communicate , communicate... I agree that the best way to get over a break up is to find yourself again so often both men and women lose themselves in a relationship, neglecting family, friendships and their own interest. Two incomplete people coming together does not make a healthy relationship, they both need to be whole on their own, this puts them in a better position to support, encourage and love each other without fear of losing the other.So my advice to all you ladies and men out there is to accept endings, I know it's hard but we all have the right to change our minds or move on, we all act up at some point in our lives so don't take it personally. Time is a great healer! work on yourself if that person is meant to come back in your life they will there is nothing you need to do but be true to who you are. Love is waiting for you to get ready to recieve it again...
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree with you more Marjorie. Some interesting points and well said..
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